Sex
and Alcohol: A Risky Mix
After completing
this activity, high school students will be able to identify:
- reasons why people use alcohol,
- negative things that can happen as a result of mixing sex and alcohol,
and
- ways to reduce risk and harm if mixing sex and alcohol.
50-60 Minutes
- Make
copies of student case studies, "Veronica's
Story"
and
"Mark's Story"
for each student.
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Introduce
the activity
-
Explain that this activity aims to explore issues of mixing sex and
alcohol. The educator should establish groundrules among students
to guide the discussion if he/she has not already done so.
Educator's
Note Regarding Confidentiality:
- In framing the discussion, the educator should identify and
communicate to the students the limits of their confidentiality.
- The
activity will be much more effective if students can be assured
that adults will hold anything they say about sexual activity
or drug use in confidence.
- If
the educator is presenting in a classroom where teachers or other
staff will be in the room, the activity and confidentiality should
be discussed among the adults beforehand.
- If
there are any adults in the room who cannot hold such information
in confidence, students should be warned so that they can make
choices about what to disclose.
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Pass
out and process "Veronica's Story" with students.
- Have
students volunteer to read the story aloud, one paragraph at a time,
plus the final discussion questions.
- Break
the group into groups of four or five. Have half the groups brainstorm
answers to Question #1; the other groups brainstorm answers to Question
#2.
- Give
the groups five minutes to brainstorm, and ask each group to select
someone to record the answers.
- Ask the
recorder to write down all answers given rather than debate whether
the answers are good or not.
- After
five minutes, reassemble the whole group and ask for reports from the
small groups who looked at Question #1: "What might be some of
the reasons that Veronica likes to drink?"
- Record
answers on the board or on a flip chart. Be sure to include the following:
- fit in/peer pressure
- makes
her feel less inhibited
- helps
her "escape" from problems
- feels
good/to have fun
- Ask for
reports from the groups who looked at Question #2: "What are some
negative things that could happen if Veronica keeps mixing sex
and alcohol?"
- Record
answers on the board or on a flip chart. Be sure to include the following:
- unwanted
pregnancy
- HIV
- STIs
- rape/sexual
assault
- regret
- emotional
upset
- Have
the whole group brainstorm answers to Question #3: If Veronica decides
to keep mixing sex and alcohol, what can she do to protect herself from
some of those negative things? Be sure to include the following:
- "Abstinence/not drinking is the safest thing she can do,
but if Veronica wants to drink, she should consider drinking in
moderation. That means to know her limits and not drink too
much."
- Veronica can bring condoms herself.
- Veronica can ask for more information from the clinic about the
pill and whether her fears are based in reality.
- Veronica can make sure that she and her friends look out for each
other.
| Educator's
Note:
Students
expect educators to disapprove of alcohol/drug use. Slogans from
the War On Drugs campaign from the '80s and '90s like Just
Say No are nice in theory, but they do nothing to help young
people develop the critical thinking skills needed to navigate the
challenges of growing up today. The
War On Drugs campaign also spread shaming messages that promoted
negative labels like, "Users are losers."
In
response to the question, "What might be some reasons that
Veronica likes to drink?" students may give judgmental responses
like: stupidity or low self-esteem.
With
responses like these, educators need to ask questions like:
- Stupidity:
"People generally have a reason for the things they do that
make sense to them at the time. What do you think Veronica is
looking for in her choice to drink alcohol?"
- Low
Self-Esteem: If Veronica's self-esteem is low, what might she
get out of drinking?
The
point here is to identify the positive intent in Veronica's choice
to drink. If we see Veronica from the vantage point of her strengths
and intelligence, we can link her positive intentions to positive
choices that she can make to protect herself if she chooses to keep
mixing sex and alcohol.
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Pass
out and process "Mark's Story" with students.
- Repeat
processing procedure used for "Veronica's Story."
Final
discussion questions:
-
How
are Veronica's and Mark's stories different?
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Summarize
the Activity
- Summarize
the activity by stating that:
- There
are many reasons that people choose to drink.
- There
are many bad things that can happen if you mix sex and drugs.
- The
way to protect yourself 100% is not to mix sex and drugs.
- If you do choose to mix sex and drugs, it's important to be safe
and know your limits.
| Variations
on the Activity |
- If time
is short, do only one case study, whichever seems more relevant.
- If there
is time, have two sessions. Use one case study for each session, with
longer small group time and more in-depth discussion.
- Break
students into single-gender groups and have young women read one case,
young men the other. (It might be useful to have young women read Mark
and young men read Veronica.)
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