By Jenna | July 13, 2018
Transitioning to 6th Grade
Editor’s note: I had an opportunity to talk with the daughter of a friend about some of her recent school health education experiences. Here are some of her comments.
I just graduated from 5th grade. I’m excited about what’s coming next—I’m going into middle school next year!
In my elementary school, we didn’t really have health education, exactly. We didn’t have a special time to talk about what food is good for you, or how much you need to exercise. My teacher told us to drink more water. And we had a class debate about whether our cafeteria should serve chocolate milk. But near the end of the year, we did have this video we all watched about puberty.
There was a boy video and a girl video. On Monday, all the boys went to watch the boy video. The girls went on Tuesday to see their video. I’m pretty sure they were different videos—a girl talked on the video I saw and I think a boy talked on the boys’ video. The videos might have covered some different things, but I think they covered some of the same things too.
The video was kind of gross. We saw a drawing of a boy’s private parts. My friends and I felt a little uncomfortable. I don’t know what the boys saw in their video, but they were uncomfortable too. When they came back from watching the video, some of the boys were joking around and saying, “I'm scarred for life!” They were being goofy. I’m not scarred for life!
I think it was important for us to see these videos because we need the information. For example, if a girl didn’t know about periods, and she started to have cramps, or pain, or saw blood—well, that would be totally scary! Or if she saw other body changes, like, you know, growing more hair. She might wonder what was going on, and it would be weird.
I’m not a boy, so I don’t know what kinds of changes boys go through. They probably have different things going on with their bodies that girls don’t have. I’m not totally sure. The boys didn’t really want to talk with us about it. They just talked about how gross it was and made jokes about it.
The school skipped the part of the video about sex. We’ll see that next year. So there wasn’t any discussion about babies or pregnancy. But one of the teachers told us they used to show the part of the video that talked about sex in eighth grade, and then there was an 8th grader who got pregnant before they showed the video. So now they show it in 6th or 7th grade.
I think for some students, at least, it might’ve been better for them to see a video like this in another year or two. Maybe kids should get a chance to decide for themselves when they’re ready to see it.
I also think it might be better if we watched with our parents instead of watching with the class. If we wanted to do that, I mean. I did get to watch the video with both of my parents before we saw it as a class—the school let parents know they could do that. That was helpful for me, and maybe it would be good for other kids too. I know I can ask my parents if I have questions about anything.
I like the ways the video emphasized being with friends. It said that sometimes when kids are going through these changes, I mean puberty, they start hating their bodies. The video said if you’re feeling bad about yourself, it’s really important to have friends you can talk to and people you can have fun with. I think that’s good advice.
I’m looking forward to all kinds of things in my future. I want to meet new people and make some more friends. I want to travel and see new places.
I’m moving up to the Junior Company in ballet. That’s cool because we’ll be traveling and doing more shows. It’s exciting to be getting better at dance. I’m also getting better at playing piano and sometimes I can even pick out tunes I’ve heard in movies and stuff. I’m happy to be learning more about music. I love it.
I’m excited to see my baby cousins grow up. I can’t wait to be old enough to babysit them. I want to be able to babysit in my neighborhood too.
And I really wish we could have three dogs. We already have Nico and Ziggy, but I want a corgi. They’re the best!
Jenna will be attending middle school next year. She loves dogs, dancing, reading and being with her friends.